In 1 Thessalonians 5:17 we are instructed to "pray without ceasing" but how do we accomplish this in a world that is so busy with the "everyday". Jobs, families, friends, daily chores -- all are very important. However, the true question is, what is MOST important?
Accomplishing our daily duties in order of most importance just might be the answer to our prayer-time dilemma. But is it? Prayer is multifaceted. There are structured prayers (like the rosary), meditative prayer (meditation), and spontaneously speaking to God in our heart in the midst of our activities. All forms of prayer are needed if we are truly going to heed St. Paul's instruction of "praying without ceasing".
Meditative prayer requires one to carve out time and quiet place and is usually coupled with spiritual reading. Structured prayer requires time but can be said in many places -- while in a car, on a bus, walking in a park or traditionally in a church. Speaking to God spontaneously from the heart can be done anywhere and at anytime.We need all three forms.
Meditative prayer is the most difficult to carve time for. You will need a quiet time and space for at least 15 minuets a day. This type of prayer needs to be scheduled in. The number one recommendation is that one needs to talk with family members about your need for prayer. Sit down and schedule with them your prayer time and place. When an agreement has been reached, make sure to stick to the agreed schedule so as to avoid inconsistencies which may create chaos on other family members.
If you don't need to consult with other family members and still have trouble carving out time for prayer, the number one recommendation is to perform meditative prayer early in the the morning before you do anything else. You may have to get up a little earlier but this is something you can offer to God as penance for those who don't pray. Early morning is the quietest time of day and prayer sets the tone for the entire day.
Wishing you the best on heeding St. Paul's instruction on how to live a life in Christ. Pray always and pray without ceasing. God bless you and yours.
